Reflection on Proverbs 31:3

 As I reflect on Proverbs 31:3, “Do not give your strength to women, or your ways to that which destroys kings,” I'm reminded of the profound love and concern mothers have for their children, especially sons. Lemuel's mother uttered a wise oracle, addressing her son with tender affection: “What, O my son? And what, O son of my womb? And what, O son of my vows?” (Proverbs 31:2). This resonates deeply with me, recalling my own mother's words of wisdom and love when I strayed. She would call me “okwe ika koku, nyobo ber ikoni ijo nen," a phrase that still echoes in my mind, reminding me of her love and concern.

A mother's love and passion for her children are truly remarkable. Lemuel's mother's warning to her son offers timeless wisdom for us all. She cautions against letting desires or distractions consume our lives. For single individuals, this means devoting their strength to Christ. For those in marriage, it means prioritizing their relationship with their spouse and avoiding distractions. Similarly, women should prioritize their relationship with God and maintain healthy boundaries.

The verse also warns against walking in destructive ways. As believers, we've been rescued from the domain of darkness, and transferred to the Kingdom of God's beloved Son (Colossians 1:13). Our path should be guided by God's grace, marked by righteousness, prayer, and a deepening relationship with Him. We should avoid the counsel of the wicked and instead walk in the way of righteousness.

Let's give our strength to God and walk in His ways daily. May we prioritize our relationship with Him, study His Word, and reflect His greatness in our lives. By doing so, we'll live a life that brings glory to His name. Let's fix our eyes on Jesus, reflecting His greatness and Majesty, and walk in the way of righteousness that brings joy and fulfillment.

May God's wisdom guide us as we navigate life's challenges. Have a blessed Friday!

In Christ,

Silas Oriokot